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Can this seriously be happenning.VENT

Posted by on Aug. 7, 2011 at 8:59 PM
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Ok went to pick kids up at meeting place because BM didn't have money to drive them home. we drive 2 hours to find out she is running a little behind six hours later she shows up. i stay in the car....(we went and did our grocery shopping because the store is out of town). BM drops them off and speeds off. whatever. DH says something to the SK. don't really care just want to get home i was prepared for a short trip not a long trip with my baby. not fun. the whole way home SD's cell phone is going off (DH pays for and she SHOULDN"T have it). 30 mins before we make it home the baby starts crfying she is cold i couldnt reach her blanket so i asked SD to hand it to me please and she threw it over the baby but i still thanked her for it, because i am the adult. we walk in the door and the fucking phone is ringing off the hook. BM is screaming into the freaking VM idk what about. DH takes the call they have been fighting back and forth. I guess SD got her nose peirced which isn't allowed at school and DH said NO to. So he goes back to SD room with BM on the phone so everyone can hear and says what did i tell you before you left and you said you were getting your nosed peirced. she goes IDK. and he said thats bs what did i tell you. SD screams I DON"T HAVE TO LISTEN TO YOU I CAN GO LIVE WITH MOM SO GET OUT OF MY ROOM. now e are at 2 freaking hours of having those brats back in the house. does this look like a new beginning. This bs is suppose to make me belive to give this person another shot. yes i know it wasn't towards me. she cna't even show respect for her father and im the one stuck at home with her. are you freaking kidding me. all of this bs just makes me want to pack me and the baby up and fucking leave. this is a big freaking joke. 2 hrs and all she can do is bring freaking DRAMA with her. DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA FML lol. (i feel better now that i got this out and now im going to go play supportive wifey.)

Posted by on Aug. 7, 2011 at 8:59 PM
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Hockeymommy1734
by Member on Aug. 7, 2011 at 9:06 PM

I know this feeling all too well. Just hang in there, and I hope things get better for you. Good luck!

cruelella2to
by Bronze Member on Aug. 7, 2011 at 9:47 PM

thank you. she is most likely going to juvy SOON she just tried to punch her dad. this bs is old

sonstris
by on Aug. 7, 2011 at 10:02 PM
Oohhhhhh. I so feel you. My DH doesn't pay for her cell phone but it definitely needs to go away. The home phone is basically a fax line so her mom can blow that up all she likes. She's so desperate to try to control her that she attempted to call my cell phone. She called like 3 times and I turned it off. She and I have never had a conversation, that's how desperate she was. And the disrespect, don't get me started. This a great place to vent. Glad you feel a tad better.
truly.a.taurus
by Bronze Member on Aug. 7, 2011 at 10:04 PM
How old is sd? I cant believe she tried to punch her dad. Im sure that didnt end well. Hope things get better.
cruelella2to
by Bronze Member on Aug. 7, 2011 at 10:23 PM

13. she goes friday....so we are told. BM will pick both SK's up. SD is down the hall screaming at her dad agian. but he did take her cell phone...and nose ring. she is living in HELL JUST HELL FOR TWO YEARS NOW JUST HELL. lol. if i ever thought about yelling im sure my dad would have knocked my front teeth out if not all of them, but then again my mom would have supported this not told him he was being a big meany lol. this is going to be a LOOONNNGGG week. dear god give me strength to get through this :)

bonusmom04
by Michelle on Aug. 7, 2011 at 10:33 PM

OMG I totally feel for you honey!!!!frown mini

pseudomamma
by Bronze Member on Aug. 8, 2011 at 8:53 AM


Quoting cruelella2to:

thank you. she is most likely going to juvy SOON she just tried to punch her dad. this bs is old

My SD spent one night in juvy and today she'll tell you it's the best thing that could have happen to her.  It scared her so much that she straightened her little ass right up. 

mikiemom
by on Aug. 8, 2011 at 8:55 AM

this child's parents are failing her.

ErinRenee815
by on Aug. 8, 2011 at 9:05 AM


Quoting mikiemom:

this child's parents are failing her.

THIS!!!!

I feel like you are dealing with a child in crisis. 

cruelella2to
by Bronze Member on Aug. 8, 2011 at 9:18 AM

her counselor doesn't think she is in crisis. she is doing what it takes to get what she wants, his words.

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