See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
I dont even know where to begin. First off, when I married my husband I had a daughter already, so he has always been a step dad, but the bio father is NOT in the picture at all, so my daughter doesnt know him any different than daddy, she doesnt know she is a step child and is only 4, so I dont think its too big of a deal right now. Anyways, after my husband asked me to marry him, he told me a few months later that he *might* have gotten a girl pregnant, but there were two possible fathers, and that if I wanted "out" I could have my out right there. At the time I said I was okay with it. Looking back, I realize I was really holding onto it not being his child. Well obviously, she turned out to be his or I wouldnt be here. So there is the back story, and I am going to post my questions in the post.