I have been with SO for three years now, and have never met his folks so we were making plans for thanksgiving to go to WA since he has his kids. well he let it slip to his brothers wife what he was planning and BM has now made arrangements to stay with HIS brother for thanksgiving. So i get to spend a vary uncomfortable thanksgiving. meeting his folks is bad as it is but to have to deal with his x at the same time? i don't want to go but i don't want him to miss having his kids. what do you think i should do
as i said we were making plans, allot is resting on how cour goes this weekend for me and my two oldest sons, so it would be at the hearing when we find out IF we were even going up. Well BM called last night to let SO know she bought tickets for her and her kids, SO is PISSED because it was not set in stone we were going up, and thanksgiving is HIS Holiday this year. Over summer brake during his week to have the kids, she took them to Colorado for a family reunion. SO understands that the kids need other family to but we feel like she is doing it on purpose.