Well I talked to the attorney this morning since dh was sleeping after just getting off a 12hr night shift. He just kept going on about how shocked he was. He said he kept flipping back and forth think where the rest of it??? He wants to file exceptions to the ACTUAL court. He said normally its hard to get a court to over rule a hearing officer but he feels very strongly in this case. He also said that there is nothing in the briefing that would even remotely make sense to her judgement,If anything it shows dh and bm as equals. It doesn't say any judge of character being negative on dh's side. It pretty much leads up to how they are equal parents and then bam the crap order. So now its just sit back pay again and wait for the exceptions hearing in front of the judge.
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