Ultimatum, Bm needs to get out!! Legal update!!! dont know but..*
I am step mom of two mother of three, end of last month So's kids were over his son, got up from the table with his plate, i didnt think because the plates go into the kitchen. but he walked over to were our ten month old was eating, and slabbed the plate over his head. I was so MAD!! I grabbed my baby up made sure he was ok then tool So's son my the arm and gave the kid a swat with the belt (never would i think i would ever use a belt on a kid) SO was just as mad as i was when he got home, but he had been punished. Not much SO could do but talk to him. When SO talked to BM she just said kids will be kids and he dosnt like the baby taking his dad away from him! ARRR Well i went into court with my X and got full custody of my to oldest sons and now my SO's X is telling him that she will not allow her kids around spoiled rotten brats. Excuse me? my sons use there manners, and do as they are told the first time and have no completes from any teachers from school. Where as BM, is in the school office once a week because of her daughters behavior. WE Even had CPS interviewing us because of the behavior display at school by his DD. I am venting, i dont like my SO not seeing his kids, but i can not stand his childrens behavior or that of his X. I need to vent because if i vent to SO he feels bad because it is all to true and he knows the danger his children put our ten month old in. As soon as we can move into a Six bedroom and hire an attorney we plan on going for custody of his kids also. We believe it is not his kids ideas to be so mean and rotten but there moms. Any ideas on how to help with them while they are hear? Or how i can convince them that the baby is not taking away there dad?
I meet with the prosecuting attorney today, her concerns are that in several different interviews with BM kids they admit that there mom has flat told them if baby is in the tub and i have them play with him hey need to hold him underwater I do not rember when but there was a day that while i was folding laundry (same room) that i let my oldest play with his baby brother while he was in the tub or open up the baby gates and gently push him out the door or down the steps. The kids were interviewed separately but what they both told the interviewers matched. The prosecuting attorney doesn't know what charges they are filling but she did ask if i was willing to have the step kids placed in MY home LADY are you NUTS you have been sitting hear telling me diffrent ways on how they have been informed to kill my son, and you want me to let them live with me full time? my thoughts subtract a few? what i told her was before i let them in my home we ALL need therapy, i am outta my league on how to deal with my feelings on this. i haven't heard anything since i left yesterday. MY SO and i have agreed his son needs help not a criminal recored but it is now in the hands of the state. We have made are wishes clear on his son as for his crazy x well no comment
last i was told was step kids are now in foster-care, and BM is waiting for arraignment, dont know if i spelled it right but she goes into court to have charges officially brought forth. I have no idea how the court system works so i am only putting down what i was told, sorry if it ant right.