so earlier this month i was writing about how my MIL tried to talk SD out of coming over to our house and out to eat with our friends. Well she put the shoe on the other foot this weekend and DH didn't say anything!!! My SD had her Halloween Costume at grandma's house and wanted to show us. She put it on. Then her grandma decided that she wanted to parade her around to all of her friends' houses. She told SD to get ready to go and SD said she didn't want to go. Grandma made her go. So why is it that MIL tries to talk SD out of doing things with us saying she doesn't want to "force" her to go and then turns around and forces her to do what she wants her to do?
I am getting sick of MIL parenting my DH's child yet he doesn't see what I see. How do I present this to him so he can try and see things from a different POV??