Do you expect BM to discuss major decisions with you?
Just wondering if you expect bm to discuss major decisions with dh? My sds' mom makes major decisions without discussing it with us or bringing it to our attention before she makes them. For example, my 6 year old sd came over to our house recently with a cell phone. We had no idea she was getting one. Another example, we were just told that the girls are being taken out of school for a week in December for a vacation. I feel like maybe she should have discussed this with us before she just takes them out of school for that long. We have 50/50 custody and live within a few miles of each other so we are both very involved in their lives.