I hate to even say for I know how I'm viewed, I am know the back lash I will get. I fell in love with a married man, we have both left our spouses, and will be eventually integrating our new partners into our children's lives. Both my husband and my boyfriend's wife used the tactic of telling the kids everything about the affair and divorce and understandably there is alot of animosity there. I do not want to step on toes, and don't want to be their Mother, as they have one, but I do want them to know that I care and I am a good, decent person, and I will care for them as I will my own when they are with me. Their mother has told the children that I'm evil, wicked and a whore. I want to re-assure the ex-wife who hates me and these kids. My question is, is it hopeless????
What we did was not the right way to go about it, but above all else its about the kids and going about this the right way is very important.....help!
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