Why my SS feel the need to share my baby with their BM?
I am a SAHM, I have a son who will be 18 in March and a baby boy who just turned 8 mths. Im also raising my 3 step sons, twins will be 17 in Jan. and a 14 yr. old. I spent my evening with my step sons mom, her hubby, at her father house for a family Christmas party that my step sons requested. No one was real sure why they wanted their family all together but grand dad (moms dad) took on the responsibilty to make this happen for the boys. Come to find out they wanted THEIR entire family togehter for my baby boys first Christmas. Why do the feel the need to share my baby boy with their mother who dont even raise them? She gave them up in the divorce 12 yrs. ago, when the twins was starting pre-k and the youngest was only 2 and my hubby has raised them by himself up until 3 yrs. ago when I came into their lives. The twins are kinda on the akward side anyhow...they have no common sence, slow with social skills, very imature for their age, and irresponsible.
Im just trying to figure this out cause they have no answers... other than it is their baby brothers first Christmas so they wanted everyone together...but hubby and I sucked it up and gave the kids what they wanted. I think it was harder on hubby than it was me, exspecailly when his x walks up to him and asked to hold the baby...he headed straight for the bottle of wine.