I'm new to the site. I'm glad I found it because now I can share with others who know what I'm going through. So, very briefly my story is.....30 years old. I been dating this guy four 5 years...now we're about to be married. My soon to be DH has four kids ages 7,9 twins, and 11. When I met him, he had custody of two of the kids....question 1....through all of this time, I still don't love them like my own. When should this feeling happen? So after dating for two year BM takes the two kids..I saw the kids very little between. The time that BM took them and know. So when BM took the kids Soon to be DH move in with me. Now we have bought a home and are about to be married. He had them over this weekend and things were okay...but I felt kinda left out...like I should give them space. I'm nervous. What do you think about this situation?
on Jan. 22, 2012 at 9:50 PM