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That STUPID HORRIBLE F****** liar **UPDATE in blue**

Posted by on Feb. 11, 2012 at 6:45 PM
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So,  my SD's BM is stupid fucking, sneaky liar. They recently signed an agreement to give her more weekends and time with her daughter. My SO signed it in front of a notary but did not go to the court house with her since he had to get back to work and she said she could handle it. Today, we get in the mail papers that she filed stating that since he deploying, he is giving her full custody with no holidays and one month in the summer and she gets child support. The last page has  both hers and his signatures. He NEVER agreed to this. She used the last page from the earlier agreement they signed together and FUCKING ATTACHED IT to these documents that she wrote up. How the hell can she fucking get away with this??!?!?! I am so f-ing pissed off!! We don't have the money to retain a lawyer right now! I don't know what we are going to do. I don't want to lose my SD and my SO loves her to death and is so infuriated right now. AAARRRRGGGGHHHH I really hate her right now. 


**UPDATE**

So, the judge approved the papers. Without even talking to my SO or anything. The BM brought the cops to our place while my SO was at work and only I was home and took her away from me. I am so devastated. Been bawling all day. In the new CO, my SO and I get NO holidays and only one month in the summer with her. It is so fucking unfair. We are going to try to appeal but we are probably fucked now. I can't believe this actually went thru. 

Posted by on Feb. 11, 2012 at 6:45 PM
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Chelliza1028
by on Feb. 11, 2012 at 6:48 PM
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 Holy fuck that's fraud.. Call legal aid! Like 10 minutes ago

laughnchica
by Member on Feb. 11, 2012 at 6:49 PM

My SO doesn't qualify for legal aid. He makes too much money for them. I don't know what we can do! 

Dana333810
by Nyelvtannaci on Feb. 11, 2012 at 6:50 PM

JFC ARE YOU SHITTING ME??????????????????

What is DH gonna do about it?!!!!!

chanizen
by Gold Member on Feb. 11, 2012 at 6:51 PM
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Go down to the court house and ask the clerk for a paperwork to file for fraud.
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hellokittyy
by Member on Feb. 11, 2012 at 6:56 PM

holyyy shit ! 

i dont even know what to say.

go back to the notary public saying that he didnt sign for that.

and she can get in trouble for lying in court ! 

laughnchica
by Member on Feb. 11, 2012 at 6:58 PM
He is going to the court house on Monday as soon as they open.
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raerae725
by Bronze Member on Feb. 11, 2012 at 6:59 PM

This.   Sorry OP I couldn't imagine dealing with that.

Quoting chanizen:

Go down to the court house and ask the clerk for a paperwork to file for fraud.


jenessamarie
by The follower :) on Feb. 11, 2012 at 7:02 PM
Wow. Yikes. Not a smart move...
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mommy6xs
by Bronze Member on Feb. 11, 2012 at 7:40 PM
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That's why you sign in front of a notary.
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sandeeyo
by ama urahara on Feb. 11, 2012 at 7:45 PM
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What a fucking bitch!

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