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I am a stepmom being the mom...ask me anything!

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:40 PM
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I am married with kids and a stepmom raising my stepkids because their mom won't. Ask me anything.

Posted by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:40 PM
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happyfeet215
by Bronze Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:55 PM

Me too!  I don't really have a question but i wanted to extend my hand and say hello!  I am in the same shoes!

 

charleyangel317
by Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:56 PM

I have been raising my sks for the last 11 years and their bm has been there maybe 3 out of those 11 years. Boyfriends are more important to her. that is ok because i am the oen that has been there for all of the accomplishments.

amanda_mom89
by Silver Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:56 PM
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O_O this probably won't end well. Just a heads up.
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charleyangel317
by Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:58 PM

Thanks. I am ready for it. Can't be any worse than anything that I have been through with her.

Quoting amanda_mom89:

O_O this probably won't end well. Just a heads up.


charleyangel317
by Member on Feb. 14, 2012 at 9:59 PM


Quoting Sumintrak:

Me three!! 

Thanks so much. I love my sks. They needed a mom and I was being mom before I even realized it...lol.

Faeta
by on Feb. 14, 2012 at 11:09 PM
can i ask a few?

what is your favorite thing about being a mom?

same question, but instead as a step mom?


what is your least favorite thing as a mom?

same question, but as a step mom?
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whatIknownow
by Platinum Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 7:58 AM

ok, here's my question:

are you prepared emotionally for the day your stepkids say they love their mom and forgive her for not being there? Because that day will come.

charleyangel317
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 8:18 AM
Quoting Faeta:

can i ask a few?

what is your favorite thing about being a mom?

same question, but instead as a step mom?


what is your least favorite thing as a mom?

same question, but as a step mom?




I love seeing accomplishments in both. I don't like hearing your not my mom when they don't get their way in sks. I don't like the kids being sick all the time.
charleyangel317
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 8:19 AM
Quoting whatIknownow:

ok, here's my question:

are you prepared emotionally for the day your stepkids say they love their mom and forgive her for not being there? Because that day will come.




I am prepared for that day.
whatIknownow
by Platinum Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 8:26 AM

then you're good to go!


Quoting charleyangel317:

Quoting whatIknownow:

ok, here's my question:

are you prepared emotionally for the day your stepkids say they love their mom and forgive her for not being there? Because that day will come.




I am prepared for that day.


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