Stepmom having issues with the new custody agreement...HELP!!!

[sillysalli]

I do not have kids but I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half...he has two boys and a very psycho baby momma...his Boys are five and three and the little one barely knows his mom because he was only ten months old when they split up...I've been in his life since he was about 18 months and I am very attached to him and He is so attached to me...the Oldest knows his mom but I still have a real good bond with him as well...they have the same mom and a year ago my boyfriend and I had an altercation with her that made her turn psycho and start hitting my boyfriend while she had the baby on her hip...while she was hitting my boyfriend, the baby hit his head three times on the car door...and She went to jail for child abuse and a battery charge...she pled guilty to the battery charge but the child abuse charge got dropped...well my boyfriend has had full custody of the kids through the whole custody battle and they finally came to an agreement that she will have them every other weekend but she will have the little one every other week because he is not in school yet...I'm So worried about the little one mainly because I am still not over the fact that she physically hurt him and I seen it with my own eyes...i Just need help coping with the new custody arrangements because I have been with these boys for almost 18 months... :(


sorry about the horrible grammer, im not stupid like most of you think. im just young. so please just comment, thank you.

[AmyGonzalez]

The first unexplained bruise call cps

[Lalahgator.]

Im sorry, your spelling is really off. Can't help it.


Anyway, like Amy above me said, anybruise, cut, burn, scratches even, call cps. Make not to frighten the little man by questioning him to much. Teach him to express himself without prying and jumping to conclusions. Good luck mama!

[WifeyC]

Your SO has been with these boys for 5 and 3 years.  You have to trust his judgement...and use spell check.

[HopesNDreams]

I can't get through this with the poor spelling and texting abbreviations...sorry.

[Dana333810]

Where is my Prozac.....................

[thrtyonemom]

Wow! Girls I was soooooo thinking the same thing about that spell check. Really it works well and is not hard to use. With that said I agree with A.Gonzales and WifeyC. Keep your eyes open and report anything that looks like abuse.

[ekralevich]

Sorry I won't read.  It's so hard to read and the spelling is really bad.  I'm sure you know how to spell boys or and.  Come on this is why people don't get reponses. 

[whatIknownow]

Quoting ekralevich:

Sorry I won't read.  It's so hard to read and the spelling is really bad.  I'm sure you know how to spell boys or and.  Come on this is why people don't get reponses. 

sorry OP, I agree with these replies. Please go back and edit. People here do want to help but no one is going to torture themselves just to read a post.

[paladinmom]

You will have to learn to trust that BM is making the right decision concerning her 3 year old.  It will be hard for you and your boyfriend to begin with.  

[TheStepMonster]

I agree with the other ladies....

boii is spelled boy

onlii is spelled only

nd is spelled and

mii is spelled me

becuz is spelled because

and remember - when adding "ing" drop the "e" - coping not copeing

knoes is knows

Ugh...