My story is very confusing and has many complications in it. I am dating my best friend of 7 years and he is going through a divorce. He has a 9 year old daughter and I just moved onto his farm, not in his house but the house next to his. I am around both of them whenever she is not in school and she is begining to understand more of what is going on and what it means. She feels like I am replacing her and I really don't want her to feel that way, we do things all together and my bf and his daughter do things alone but when she finds out her dad and I are going to do something alone together she throws such a fit that we are not able to hang out because no one can handle her. How do I reassure her that I am not replacing her, I am simply an addition and I hope to stay around because I really love my bf.