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Would you include step kids?

Posted by on Apr. 7, 2012 at 10:49 PM
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If you ever got a tattoo, or birthstone ring, or anything else like that, where it has all he kids names or something to symbolize them.....woul you include your step kids or just add your bio kids?

I'm planning a tattoo of a Celtic knot with each kid represented in it. I will of course add SD.
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GCSOmom
by on Apr. 8, 2012 at 3:52 AM

 Considering I've been there since sd was 1, yes I consider her to be just like my own and actually have a tattoo picked out for her but dh won't draw it for me.

2bkayleesmommy
by Bronze Member on Apr. 8, 2012 at 4:01 AM
Tattoo. No. Ring? No (I don't like jewlery)
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2bkayleesmommy
by Bronze Member on Apr. 8, 2012 at 4:06 AM
I have something like this, cherry bloosims on the top of my foot for my sisters and brother, and a cousin who my mom raised, I call him my Brosin


Quoting E_is_4_Ethan:

This is for the kids (bio and step) oldest to youngest. They picked the color of their flower.


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paladinmom
by on Apr. 8, 2012 at 7:40 AM

I was going to get a tat on my wrist of six stars.  DH said no.  It was for all the kids...

jojojack
by Bronze Member on Apr. 8, 2012 at 8:09 AM
No they are not my kids i would get dd on a tattoo would be my first and prob only, def no to ring either they have a mother and its not me.
lilangilyn
by on Apr. 8, 2012 at 8:19 AM

No skids. Life can go any direction. I would not want the name of a skid permantly on my body or anybody's name for that matter. People come into our lives for a season and then sometimes they are gone, as in divorce. I am a BM and I wouldn't like my children's names inked on BM's body. I find that possessive, intrusive and icky.

thatislife
by Silver Member on Apr. 8, 2012 at 8:21 AM
Just mine
newtothismi
by on Apr. 8, 2012 at 8:35 AM

 not here. My mother's ring is for my sons and their birthstones.  My step children have a mother and it would not only piss BM off but it just doesnt feel right in my sitch. I love them a lot...just, they're not my babies.  And they love me alot too...just, Im not their mama.  We are cool with it.

Kholt
by Member on Apr. 8, 2012 at 11:38 AM

I have 1 ring with bio kids  and my engagment ring from DH we had some diamonds taken out and all kids birth stones put in   to add children in the marriage kinda

 

atlshine
by on Apr. 8, 2012 at 11:41 AM

a ring no, a tattoo no. a family pic, sure.

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