Just a question for SM's and BM's out there..(edited)
So I am just curious to all Sm's and Bm's do you do whatever it takes for the kids? Go out of your way to accomodate ex spouses because its for the kids?
I know I don't and had never thought about it until today. It made me realize that I need to be more accomodating and put my own feelings aside as a BM and SM. and do what is right for the kids. I have put my own feelings first. I am guilty of that on more than one occasion. And I need to realize and step back when I do and just be the peacemaker not the fire starter. That goes for me being more accomodating to my kids SM too and my skids BM. Not just BD.
So I guess my question also is..How far is too far to accomodate? Even if it is "for the kids" how far are you willing to go for the kids before its far and beyond accomodation?