My 2 step daughters acted horrible this past weekend. they are 9 and 14. threw food on the floor, lied about things, and refused to put their laundry away also spoke to me like a dog. My husband says he will handle it, nothing gets done. Its to the point when they are coming my 3 boys run off to my moms house because they dont want to be around them, i have to force myself to stay. What do i do?