SS15 needs more discipline at home BM wont do anything about it...
Ok ladies i need some advice, My ss15 has turned in to a very disrecpectfull liying and just getting out of control young man. He used to be so awsome so honest so caring and wonder full and now he hit 14 and boom a total flip flop. He plays his mom like a fiddle. He says one thing to his dad and turns around and backstabs him in the back. He is starting to lie to alot of people. Now i know its not my place to say anything or do anything but i really thinkg the BM needs to do or have more discipline at home.
Heres why, He will get done with school, BM will text her son and ask if he has any home work he says no i got it all done in school im going over to a friends house see you at 9 tonight. BM belives him, a few months down the road report cards come in.... Hes failing every class except his band class. There have been 2 girls he recently dated saying that hey have engaged in sex with him. BM and DH confront him and he says no.
He is using his family for money, his mom will dropp everthing at the dropp of the hat just to give him what he wants. She says that he wont listen to her....Jee I dont know why.........Um he wont spend alot of time with his uncle inless his uncle has money.
I told my husband that its time they all start playing hard ball but we cant get the bm to stick to her guns and do it. She just lets him walk all over to her, She is more strict on MY SS sister (who isnt my husbands btw) then she is on him....
What do we have to do?? Ive thought about sitting down and having a parent meeting first and then envovle the ss to let him know whats going on.
I just dont know what to do, I dont know how to help my husband on this ne ideas??
btw my husbands only gets to see him every other weekend and whenever he gets through the town he lives in.