So this week started rough. A good friends hubby died unexpectedly and I feel so sad for her, and him. I feel so bad I can't be there for her and hold her hand. So I texted DH Monday to tell him. He responded that I need to let him know what he can do for me and if he can call me while I was at work. So here I am thinking he want to call and comfort me. Nope, he calls and says his parents want to visit this weekend! Oh no! So we decide too short notice, and I at the time thought I might fly out for the funeral.so he goes into trying to find another time.... I say "not today, let's talk another time about it." but he keeps going. So I say ask them up for Mothers day. He said "it's not SD's weekend, how dare you exclude her." I'm like WTF!? She's YOUR mom, I thought it was a fine suggestion, talk to your ex and see if you can have some time sat and SD has a game on Sunday so they can go see that." but nooooooo, I am villi aniseed and how dare I suggest such a thing. Okie dokie. Then later I mention his mom never got with me to plan the decorations for the wedding (we are engaged to be married in June), and I tell him I am a little hurt and I don't think she wants to be involved and he is defensive.... My mom doesn't like the phone he says... Well, we live in one state, she lives in another and the wedding is yet in another's state so maybe she needs to call or hone her mental telepathy skills? And again, how dare I, his mom doesn't like the phone, etc.
Ok, wtf!? How am I the bad guy? I just wanted to be sad a couple of days for a friend going through something so hard... Help.
on Apr. 18, 2012 at 8:06 PM