My husband thinks that I should put him b4 my children? I think he is crazy , Am I crazy to think this?
Quoting Tabby1976:Well I get my kids every other weekend and they were here this past weekend, and he got mad cause he wanted to take me to dinner and I told him I only see my kids 2x a month maybe we can during the week when they are not here,, and he acted like a big baby,
Well I get my kids every other weekend and they were here this past weekend, and he got mad cause he wanted to take me to dinner and I told him I only see my kids 2x a month maybe we can during the week when they are not here,, and he acted like a big baby,
oh I see. I think your DH is wrong. If you only see them EOWE, I can understand why you'd want to spend that time with them.
im guessing financial stress over being laid off is not helping his attitude..... when dh was out of work for 3 months, adn i was a sahm focusing on the kids(like i did before, but he did not see it so much)it would stress him and he felt a bit neglected
i dont think this has to do with the night out, i think there are other issues behind it....
but, you did not give a lot of back story... how longs he been laid off? how are you affording bills? how many kids, and whos?
Quoting pristine729:It's a personal decision, I suppose.
My husband will come first and I expect the same. We are partners and will be together for the rest of our lives...the kids will grow up and have families of their own.
My husband comes first depending on the situation. Right now I would rather be with my husband at the hospital then at home with my kids but it didnt happen that way. My MIL told me when her husband got off and could help with the kids I could go to the hospital. Instead she stayed at the hospital with my husband and sent her husband to take her daughter to visit her father and he wont be back for another 4 hours.
My kids come first otherwise. Same with my husband. I do however think I should come before my MIL but he doesnt agree with me on that one.
I think if spouses were put first there would be a lot less divorce. Obviously you have to take care of the needs and desires of the children, too, but I think far too often once kids enter the picture couples tend to forget they are a couple and now they're just parents.
Sry should have put stay at home sm
Depends on what is meant by puttting him first...
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