I Don't understand why a BP says cs is for "a roof over kids head and utilities"
Skids BM told my Dh that "She might need him To buy the boys more clothing this year bc she's only working 3 days a week right now..um!! Hello?! I am off until February on disability and I would never expect my dd's bd to pick up my slack bc I am making less $ right now. BM has 4 incomes Coming In and my Dhs.
I get that sentence sometimes,but it still doesn't explain why you'd think it should pay your bills you would have paid without cs or kids. Btw,Dh is 50/50 and always gets them more then that. Maybe that's why I see it like this. Fair is fair.