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Baby mama Drama..............

Posted by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:13 PM
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 I am so freaking sick of my fiance's X. If she were to get into a car crash and die I would be at home throwing a freaking party as soon as I heard the news!!! So, here's why............

Rori hates me because she thinks that I "stole" Bryce from her. His entire family tells me that they hated each other and they were both over the relationship for the past 2 years. He and I met at a bar one night and hit it off. After a few days talking on the phone and spending time together, we decided to start dating. Rori hated it. She wouldn't let him bring the kids to meet me and she was constantly calling and texting him all kinds of drama. When we moved in together she got worse. We went to pick the kids up from her house and she called his mom bitching that he brought me to her house . I WAS SITTING IN THE TRUCK THE WHOLE TIME!!! Rori was in the window mean-muggin me and I looked at her and laughed. STUPID!!! Then, when I got pregnant she flipped out on him and decided to get him for child support!!! I lost the baby but she didn't let up. She kept texting and calling saying that he hurt her and he doesn't consider her feelings and she isn't over him yet blah blah blah! One day Bryce went to work and forgot to leave me the carseat and I had to go to my OB to make sure that there wasn't anything left over from the miscarriage. He called Rori and asked if she had a carseat that i could use. She said yeah that I just had to come get it. I though, "finally she is getting over the childish shit and moving on" . WRONG!!!!! I went to get the carseat and I was with his Uncle. He drove us. Rori started walking towards the van with the carseat and I got out to get it. She saw me and threw the damn thing at me!!! Still, I was trying to be adult and said, "thanks for letting me use it." And she replied, "you can just fucking have it!"..............Seriously??? I told Bryce about it and he ca;;ed her and bitched about how she acted. She told him, "i dont have to be nice to your home wercker!" She later told his mom that I was the one who was rude to her when I got the carseat!!!! Every time we go pick up the kids from her house she just stands in the window staring at me. Oh I almost forgot, she would drive past the house EVERY NIGHT  for no apparent reason when we lived with his uncle. She lived about 9 blocks away and could take the main street to go where ever she needed but she drove past our house instead. We saw her a few times and one time Bryce went out of town for work but left me the truck. It was a weekend and he usually gets the kids on the weekends but told her that he couldn't take them that weekend because he had to work out of town. She asked him why he lied because she saw his truck in front of the house. Again, we lived on a back street.........unless she went out of her way to drive past our house, she wouldn't see the truck!!! When he told her that we were engaged, it got even worse!!! The drama really began!! She went on and on about how stupid he was for asking me to marry him and told him that all I wanted was someone to be my babie's daddy! I have a 1yo from a previous marraige. Her father was a drug addict, I left him. i wasn't looking for a "replacement father". I wasn't even looking for a relationship it just happened! ANYWAY!!! She talks shit about me and Bryce all over facebook and every time they fight she practically alerts the media!!! Within 5min of their argument his whole family and her whole family knows about it! His mom and sister call him talking about it because she twists his words and then when they both hang up with him HER MOTHER calls him trying to figure out whats going on!!! It's ridiculous!!! Last weekend Bryce had to work on Saturday. He took his son, Ethan, with him. I was here with my daughter, Alexis and his daughter, Ellie. When they got home Bryce took a nap. The kids were running wild and really pissing me off. Ethan punched Ellie because she didn't want him in her room. I sent Ethan to say he was sorry to her and then made him take a nap. Bryce had left his phone in the kitchen and Rori called. I knew she wanted to talk to the kids so I answered it. This is how the convo went...... RORI --"Hi is  Bryce there or my kids?" ME----" Bryce is taking a nap." RORI---"Oh is he? Are the kids around?" ME----"Yeah the kids are up let me go get them." RORI---- "ok thank you." So then I went in the girls room and gave the phone to Ellie. I thought the exchange was civil but she apparently flipped out about it because she had her tweeker bf call Bryce from her phone at 1am talking all kinds of shit and threatening him. When Bryce talked to her aboutit she mentioned that she was pissed off that I answered his phone because that was his phone not mine...............WOW!!!! Now both hers and Bryce's family are pissed at her for it and she is STILL talking shit.............IDK what to do about this bitch!!!

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by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:13 PM
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newtothismi
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:17 PM

 wow

ShannaBee
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:25 PM

That's a lot of drama. Kinda reminds me of when DH and I got back together. BM was  like that. Childish and drama drama drama.

liltigersmom
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:33 PM
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 ignore her, let only your SO answer his phone, stay home for pu/do's.

just an fyi baby mama and baby daddy, is ghetto.

AshleyMarie88
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:44 PM
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 It's just a term. Call it what you will thats not the point here. The point is that the woman is a child!!! I don't talk about her around the kids, I dont let Bryce talk about her around the kids. It's a respect thing. She tells the kids not to listen to me because I'm "just dad's gf" . She tells the kids that she doesn't like me and she talks bad about Bryce in front of them too. It's horrible! I knew she wanted to talk to the kids, I answered the phone because Bryce was asleep. i was being nice. I go with him to drop off and pick up the kids because we usually have other stuff to do to. She needs to get over it. Im going to be apart of their lives, Im marrying their father. It's time she grows the fk up and accepts it!

liltigersmom
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:49 PM
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 well, good luck with that.

Quoting AshleyMarie88:

 It's just a term. Call it what you will thats not the point here. The point is that the woman is a child!!! I don't talk about her around the kids, I dont let Bryce talk about her around the kids. It's a respect thing. She tells the kids not to listen to me because I'm "just dad's gf" . She tells the kids that she doesn't like me and she talks bad about Bryce in front of them too. It's horrible! I knew she wanted to talk to the kids, I answered the phone because Bryce was asleep. i was being nice. I go with him to drop off and pick up the kids because we usually have other stuff to do to. She needs to get over it. Im going to be apart of their lives, Im marrying their father. It's time she grows the fk up and accepts it!

 

JacyB
by Bronze Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:50 PM
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Agree with PP. delete her off Facebook, stay home at pick ups and drop offs and don't answer the phone. You're allowing a lot of this drama to occur by feeding into it. Who cares what she does or what she thinks? You need to use your time on your daughter not waste it on this lady.
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pdxmum
by Ruby Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:51 PM
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Yeah, you too sweetie. You might think about growing up a bit too.

Anytime I read about a SM who wishes death upon a BM, I kind of figure they are just as much a part of the drama.
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pdxmum
by Ruby Member on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:55 PM
And fyi - this is a wide open public forum. People tend to use abbreviations and not names. Easier for us also. I really don't want to track who rori or bryce is. BM, DD, SS etc.
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AshleyMarie88
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 2:58 PM

 She is not on my facebook. i dont talk about her on facebook. I don't talk about her at all. I don't talk to her about the drama. I don't feed into the drama! She is the one who does and says all this and I sit here boiling with my mouth shut. I just can't figure out why she wont stop it's irritating

feliciasmith
by on Apr. 28, 2012 at 3:02 PM
How long have you two been dating? Are you a homewrecker? Were they living together when you got with this guy?

you need to step back and let her deal with her emotions, she'll get over it Im sure but give it time?
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