Okay, I am BM with no SK. But I have a question, this past time my ex and I swapped off our son, he was fine, and so was I. But 5 hours later he texts me going off. All over cologne that he bought for our son this past New Years when he had him. My ex and SM bought our nine year old "COOL WATER" the name brand, not the cheaper version. I don't allow my sons to wear cologne except on special occasions, and that is rare. He is on my butt, because I don't allow our son to wear it on a daily basis to school. Our son is nine, would you let your nine year old wear cologna all the time to smell good or even buy it for your SS who is around the same age? My son showers on a daily basis, and has a very clean smell to him except when he comes inside from playing, he doesn't have the BO smell to him yet, and doesn't need deodorant yet. I feel he is trying to make him grow up faster then he should. Just asking for an opinion on this.