My boyfriend and I, were only together a couple months before we found out i was pregnant. We love eachother so much and are very happy and excited. I already have a son who is 2 1/2 and he has a daughter who is 1 1/2. I have my son full time, but he only gets his dauther MAYBE one weekend a month. We agree that we love all the kids the same, and will treat them all equally. But everytime his daughter goes back home he is upset at me for doing something wrong. Today, he asked why i didnt play with her like i do my son, I told him I just dont like to take time away from him and her and that shes younger and just cant do everything my son can. But really sometimes i just dont know how to act when shes around, Its hard to have a close bond with her when i see her so rarely and since shes so young. Plus i have a boy who loves rough houseing and getting dirty, i have noidea how to play with a girl. I dont know how to explain this to my boyfriend/BD without him feeling like i dont love and care for her. Any suggestions?