I promise you this is not a bashing question. I'm gueninely wonding your situation. I've noticed you are not a "fan" of step parents overstepping. I was wondering if you wouldn't mind sharing your story about your personal situation with your marriage(s?) and the situation you deal with any stepparents that are in your child's life. I understand if its personal and totally respect that. I just thought I would ask because I've been curious from some of your posts.
PS... I'm from Wisconsin to! I just assumed you were from your love of the Packers :)