I was not surprised when SD acted ungrateful at the party, but other people were. She never said thank you to anyone and had no reaction when opening her gifts. My sister overheard her saying I got white cake instead of red velvet because I don't care what she likes. OMG no, it was going to be $30 more if I got red velvet and DH was already pissed that I was getting such an expensive cake. We got her a new iPod with her name engraved on the back and she was like..."that's pointless, it's so small you can barely read it." To top it all off her mom got her two pigs for her birthday and she has acted like it was the most perfect gift in the world. We never knew she was into farm animals!
Again, I knew better than to expect her to be appreciative, but it was really embarrassing the way she acted. I'm so ready for her to go get a great big taste of what goes on at BM's. SS told me this weekend he really missed my food, I cook dinner every night and he said his mom would just say fend for yourself. He also told me she left him alone all the time and would say she couldn't stand being stuck home with him.
DH has plans to take SD out to dinner tonight, just her and him, and he's going to give her a promise ring. I hope she doesn't treat him like crap, he is trying so hard to show her love despite all her lies. I just can't bend over backwards for her anymore, it always gets me hurt.