See what CafeMoms are saying about saving time this holiday season..
I have posted previously about the issue with my boyfriends BM. I wont get into it again but she is psychotic. Harassing, manipulative, verbally abusive and that's just a few words to describe her.
The child in this situation is 2, the BM was a one night stand right before my bf and I got together ( We have known each other for over 13 years) We have been together for almost 3 years now, and he didn't know about the child till he was 6 months old and she got him for back child support and whatnot. So I have had conversations with the woman in the past because she can not refrain from having contact with me telling me how I ruined her life, and she hates me and I"ll have nothing to do with the child.
Anyway. I have spoken to BM on several occasions and we have talked about our relationship, and what I am about, what my history with children is. I have spent a ton of time with children and I am 100% involved in this child's life and want what is best for him.
She has told me in the past that she is content with our relationship and that I have answered all her questions and she feels great with leaving her child in my and the child's fathers care. Now 2 years later she doesn't feel comfortable and wants to have a meeting. I told her to have a 3rd party mediator from the court be appointed and we can sit down and have whatever meeting she wants so it's all on paper and noted so in the future that she can't go back and say anything bad about me and she refused. Said she is going to have a paper written up that the child can not be around me during the visitation.
What do I do?