My Dh and I have twin boys who turn 1 on the 19th of this month. As these boys are my first, and I really want to throw a huge birthday party on their real birthday because it is a Saturday, and everyone is able to come except for SDs who have visitation with their mom that weekend as she is no custodial and it is on an odd weekend. Is it wrong of me for not feeling bad for this as my husband says its my choice and does not care either way as the day is for the boys and not the adults. I honestly feel it will be better this way due to lack of jealously and tantrums from my sds.
And with mothers day this month, the girls are only here 1 weekend, then leave for the entire summer.
What should I do.
I need to make sure I am doing an okay thing.