I've heard some horror stories lately about BM but my SS mother is, well, pretty cool. I've been w/ SO and SS for about 4 years now, we have a DD of our own, and me and BM still get along great. In fact, I'd call her a friend. She and SO don't get along as well (or much at all), but that's why they haven't been together for many years. Is my situation just a fluke, or does anyone else actually get along with a BM?