When reading stuff on here do you read as one or the other when you are in fact both?
I am a SM to a little girl who is here every other week. I am BM to 3 boys. My oldest isn't my husbands, and goes to his dads a few times a year. He doesn't have a SM and the newest gf I haven't met. Sometimes I forget that I am a BM on here. I am sure it is because of the lack of interaction with my ex.
Which view do you tend to see from?