ok so im the sm to three two girls ages 10 and 5, and a boy age 3. we have the 5 and and 3 year olds full time but only have the 10 year old on the weekends. i will call them kid 1(age 10) kid 2(age 5) and kid 3(age 3).
kid 1 is the bm's from a earlier relationship, ok so we got custody of kid 2 and kid 3 because bm's house was nasty( bugs, food left out, drain cleaner left in the shower) we could not get kid 1 because she is not his.
now the story, kid 1 has been kicked out of school 3 times this year for lice, i treated kid 1 all 3 times, i treated myself their dad and all 3 kids, and got tea tree shampoo, kid 1 just got kicked out again, i dont want her to bring the lice in my home, so their dad called bm and said we would not watch her until she was lice free. i dont think bm is treating herself and all three times bm had kid 1 spray down her house. (bm hates me)
i love all 3 kids what should i do, and did i do the right thing?