Well im CF (childfree that is) but my fiance does have a young D ive gotten to know over the last 1yr 1/2 and we are moving in together FINALLY. Since weve been together he basically has us both on his off days and we've gotten on well. But since we are moving together Im getting closer to coping w the SM lifestyle I guess and she will be around a lot more. I dont have children and Im okay with never doing it (Its not for everyone so please dont judge) but Im a little nervous of what life will be like spending more time with her? Id say we are good I do the mommy thing cooking cleaning school homework when Im there and it doesnt bother me, but doing it on a more permanant level is scary! Any new SM's maybe without kids have any stories to share or any tips? I never over step with her but I am much more disciplined than DF and I think SD is a little spoiled to an extant. I run a tight house with keeping it clean and do not have patience for bratty disrespectful children (sorry Im just being honest) but she isnt too bad. As far as BM we play nice but have disliked eachother from 13 till now and I dont care for her. Weve had out F U no F U moments just cux personality clashes but overall she doesnt bother me much. But i really just wanna know what can be expected......My fiance is the love of my life and knows Im not really a small child person but can deal when they respect my house I dont hate them either. I do enjoy our time together as a couple and we dont see her cept maybe twice a week shell sleep over but its going to be a lot more going on soon. She is very affection and very need almost to the point I think she must not get a lot of attention (which i keep between me and DF like I said I dont deal w BM much unless I have too and when I do have a problem i go to DF he listens takes it in and usually agrees and discusses on OUR behalf so all is calm) But again any tips for STBSM is greatly appreciated
Thanks to all! Im so glad I found this site!