We view the day that we exchanged our self written vows with a magister on a beach on a tropical island in the carribean as our real wedding day.
When dh told bm we were getting married she tried anything and everything for to stop our wedding from filing a court action to reopen their divorce decree thinking it would reinstate their marriage to begging him to not do it then threatening him that hed never see his kids again if he didnt remarry her to contacting the government and saying he was a terrorist hoping they wouldnt let him fly out of the country.
The week before we were to leave she showed up at my apartment to beg him to come back and he told her we were already married. She freaked out and made an ass out of herself demanding him to prove it. He shut the door in her face and had her tresspassed from the property.
Upon our return we had a reception and my new brother in law witnessed bm popping our balloons and tearing up our directional signs to the reception.
After she realized that she couldnt stop it she dissappeared and didnt see the kids for 6 months. She was mia.
Did the bm in your life try to stop your wedding?