lately my stepdaughter has been feeling more and more depressed about her life and her moms family. it seems like none of them want anything to do with her and it seems like the crying over it is getting more and more frequent, it doesn't help that shes over weight and doesn't make friends easily. well she had a friend who started dating her 19 year old brother (shes 13 so not right) and my sd learned that her friend was cheating on him and she tried to tell him but her "friend" started saying he hates her and that he doesn't ever wanna talk to her again. well later we learned that she had told the same thing to him to keep her "wallet" as she called him (not a nice girl) well last Friday sd came home in tears because of what this girl said to her that day (that shes fat no one likes her that her mom left because of her weight and so on) she was so scared to go to school today that she made herself throw up so she wouldn't have to go (i didn't make her didn't have the heart) so what do i do she thinks every one hates her and she hates herself from all this we go walking everyday after school and we have her on a diet (the whole family) but she still feels like crap about her self because of this stupid girl we've contacted the school about her but the damage is still done to her how can i help her feel better about herself (shes even lost 4 pant sizes so she got new pants yesterday but she couldn't feel good about it because of how shes feeling inside).
on May. 7, 2012 at 2:51 PM