So...BF had temp custody court today. Ill keep this a short as possible.
BM and BF separate. He files ofr divorce. SHe makes his life HELL. Every bad thing I have read about an ex on this site...she's done...PLUS some. Cheated, hit kids, used kids, hit him with a bat, had a baby with someone else while he was in Iraq, drug addict, jail sometimes as much as 8 or 9 times a year, public scenes...you name it...she's done it. He has been fighting to just SEE his kids (SD is his but SS is not bio...but he has raised him since he was born). If she doesnt get her way...she keeps the kids from him. She HATES me. I have never done anything bad or wrong to her. She hates me because she feels like if it wasnt or me being in his life then they would get back together (NOT AFTER YOU HIT HIM WITH A BAT STUPID!). So they agree on week on week off temp for kids (only one is legal so she gets to maniuplate the situation for the other one). Well, she refused to sign the temp order and wants a court date.
They get to court to find out that her attorney advised her to sign the damn temp order. WHY WOULDNT HE DO THAT IN THE FIRST PLACE INSTEAD OF MAKING EVERYONE GO TO COURT? I dont understand.
I have posted pics of her house on here...her "wedding" (even though she's still married so she cant legally get married)...i wont repost because I dont want to make shit harder for him. I do everything to stay out of the situation for my own sanity but she is out of control. Her son (the one thats not BFs bio) has gotten suspended from school for 3 days 4 times in the last several weeks. the kids are 8 and 9 and both are failing because she doesnt make then do their homework or even go to school most of the time. When they are with us, they ALWAYS go to school and ALWAYS do their homework. How can a judge continue to allow this to go on? WHy wont someone do something? Someone new calls CPS on her every week. She drinks mouthwash and passes her drug test since they do the mouth swabs. IDK WTF to do anymore. We're all so stressed out. I guess I just needed to vent and get it out.