well, just to update you guys, things are going ok with the divorce, only he's doing everythign he can to get me alone. which i WILL NOT do.
he's scheduled his school hours same day as mine to hopefully run into me. i'm trying to get a hold of attorney to see about an order to make him stay away from me
he can't call me but still has my e-mail address for work, which is how i'm finding this information out (i have been talking to him because he's giving me A LOT of ammo for the divorce)