My DH has had custody of my two SSs since the were 1 and 2 when BM walked out. After that she rarely called, no birthday presents, no Christmas packages, did not care about grades or anything. We married 3 years ago and POOF, the dead arose. Since then it's been my kids this and my kids that, her and her parents took him back to court claiming the reason she had no interaction with them was because of him. Long drawn out court battle cut short she received all the summers with them, they split ever Christmas, she gets every Spring Break and 3 times a week Skype and or telephone contact. We live 3000 miles from her and the hubby has to pay half of transportation costs. Also even though a previous order said the kids could not be left alone with her parents without DH or BM present due to another fight he had where the grandparents would not return thd boys to my DH the judge also ordered my husband to make sure HE facilitates contact between the boys and her parents. A year after all this was granted BM has gotten worse and seems vindicated by thd courts in a way. Constantly wanting to deviate from thd court order at her convenience and when DH does not agree she calls his job and files motions. What really can be done to stop these women from using visitation as a way to inconvenience and bother you? Take your visitation and leave us clone because we are not summer-time parents and have other kids to raise. It's like she uses every visitation to cause some type of conflict and enjoys it. Anybody else goes through this? My husband handles issues with her and I stay out of it but it's draining to the family and thd boys suffer thd most. We have really given up hope in the court systems.
on May. 9, 2012 at 3:28 PM