"If I could do it over list" jacking your post Jessieluv
-I would have stopped visitations from the very start, when drugs were around my child.
- I would have set up child support from the get-go, along with supervised visitation and drug tests
- I would have never joined myspace and gotten involved in petty arguments and listened to verbal vomit from SM.
- I would have NEVER dealt with the SM at all, only the BF. Not one conversation. It would have saved so much drama on both sides.
- I would have never joined a moms website before this one. She could have had that one, lol. I'll take cm anyday. More drama ensued there, like MySpace.
- I would have told BF that when he grew up (which he did, btw) to contact me. Our phone number and email address have been the same for over 8 years now. I would have only talked to him about our situation and not SM interceding on his behalf.