Step daughter in T-Ball.....Mom's shocking way of handling the situation
SD lives mostly with her BM and spends 6 weeks with us during the summer (as well as holidays and a minimum of every other weekend) anyway BM felt it was unfair that SD missed out on childhood opportunities so she signed her up for Tball this spring/summer. The court order says all these decisions are supposed to be made by both BM and BF but as DH is not opposed to her being in extra curricular activities we did not throw a hissy fit over mom not talking to him about signing her up. We are actually really suprised because BM NEVER communicates let alone well, or follows the court order and she not only gave us the Tball schedule but also invited us to attend the games we could!!!! Im not sure why the change in her behavior but I hope it is the begining of something good. I am wondering if it has anything to do with the fact that DH and I are expecting the arrival of our first baby this Saturday - maybe mom has realized the reality that he is never coming back to her and is accepting it finally after almost 5 years?