Need Some Advice........or maybe just some understanding
I'm Kate. I really don't know where to even begin other than i find myself in unfamiliar territory and have been searching the web for days to just find (something), I really don't even know what, but I guess the best way to describe it would just be maybe to find someone to relate to in my situation.
I'm 30 years old, dating a single dad, long distance, for over 2 years now. I'm not a stepmom yet, but we both know we want to get married and i suspect we will be engaged by the end of the year. I do not have any children of my own yet, my boyfriend and i plan on having at least one child together after we are married. I have a lot of nieces and nephews, i love kids, and i don't have a problem being around them.
I have met my boyfriend's son almost a year ago now and have been around him a few visits when I travel to him and they have also made a few trips out together to see me. Just recently (last week), they were both here and stayed with me for 5 days. I've never had a problem with his son on previous visits, however this past visit I felt some unspoken animosity between his son and I, and I'm kind of freaking out. Just experiencing a lot of emotions that kind of caught me off gaurd and I'm really not sure what to do with them.