Hi, I am new here and need to vent and connect with other SMs. My 27-year-old SD is "done with me" since February. (I married her dad when she was 8 and she lived with us from 15 to 18.) We were getting along fine until she got mad about something I posted on FB that had nothing to do with her. She totally overreacted. She called DH to tell him how pissed she was, never called me. We still have not talked but she has told Mil, FIL, and SIL how horrible I am. The final straw was when she told DH that I cheated on him (not true). I don't know how I can ever trust her again. If anything improves, it will have to be her doing, cause I am done. When anything happens that upsets her, it is always somehow my fault. Also I am pretty sure she has borderline personality disorder. I have never experienced anything like this with my birth family. Some days the resentment I feel makes me wonder if my marriage can survive this. DH supports me but also sees SD. We have agreed to not talk about her, and she is no longer allowed to dog me to DH. All the in-laws think I need to fix this but I am done!!!!!!!!!! I dread the holidays cause it will be a logistical nightmare to accommodate her need to avoid me. This has broken my heart. She is my only child, and she hates me.
on May. 15, 2012 at 1:31 AM