Why is it worse when a SM oversteps vs. a BM who does it constantly?
A SM of 2 ss's 12.5&16.
Why does it seem so much worse when a stepmom Oversteps but when a BM does it,SM's should just "let it go" and stay quiet?
As SM's,I feel we sacrifice a lot of our freedom. The freedom to say something,to debate,to try something new.I know they are not our bio kids,and Dh should handle it. But when is enough,enough?!
Why is it worse when sm's overstep vs. bm's who do it all the time? You can answer w out my example;)
(((((((Example: I'm pissed this week. ESP.yesterday & today.(If you know my Stich,I've complained a lot about this) Tues,I get out of my Car from
Dropping off my dd's from School,of course BM is there in her car waiting for her sons to get ready for school at my Home on her week As always!
I was close enough to where I felt inclined to say hello(her window was down,she was smoking,then I seen a cigarette butt on my sidewalk later!)
Bm didn't say hello back😠.Yss found a clean shirt,put it on then I heard BM yell,Bring another clean shirt!(I was laying in dd's room)
Are you freaking kidding me!?! It's my pet peeve to have these kids dirty,there will always be clean clothes here,BUT I've decided I'm going to try to speak up before the school year ends!
I will not go through another year of this BS! She needs to know I am not someone you walk on and she needs to mom up and take Better care of her sons and this is not normal))))))
Why is it so bad that I "can't" do this? Why is this a no-no?