In your opinion... are nightly phone calls from the bm, like an invasion of family time to you?
How much is too much? What would other SM's feel acceptable? What type of arrangement do you currently have.
My DF and I are getting tired the the BM always interupting our family time and/or dinner meals with her nightly calls. Most of the time, the calls are short and simple, sometimes its just babbling about complete nonsense, but the LO seems to not really care about the nightly call unless she's craving attention in which case she hams it up.