Ok, so there's this whole other post about how men who have 50/50 should be forced to be doing all the parenting. To me, that just seems like a jelous BM. Like they don't like it that their ex husband gets a lot of help from their new wife while they as BM are stuck with most of the responsiblity in their home since their new husband won't help. Because why else would they care so much about how he's getting things done? From what I have seen, no mother out there does things 100% on their own. Most parents would agree an extra set of hands is priceless so why hate on the ex because he has that?