Been on CM about 4 years now.
There is something I have observed. I know others have too.
SM's who are just pulling their hair out at the injustice the BM is doing to their sweet husbands...........
And immediately turn to the otherside.
Because that sweet ex hubby of theirs now has a new bed warmer and he is wanting her to play mommy to her new skids.
It's funny to watch a previously vicious SM on these boards turn into the most extreme momma bear instincts woman you have ever seen.
It happens.....every. time.
edited to add: or they leave with their head in shame.