Ladies i need some advice help.
so my fiancee ex hates me and constantly calls me names like b****. at one pt she wanted to meet me but i wasnt ready to meet her. Now i am ready to meet her but im afraid. What do i say to her? she is 18 and i am 22. im around her son every weekend when the childs dad has him. I love the child who is 18months old. i didnt know that there would so much drama involved when a person finds there soul mate. i love my fiancee but i dont know if i can stay with him, mayb later we can try again but i feel like i am going insane. i cant talk to my fiancee, lets call him bob, bob doesnt get what i am going thru, he tries to be there for me and listen but then we end up fighting cuz i feel ignored. its hard and i just want a friend that understands where i am coming from. my finacee is 21 and works for his dad, bleh! that is drama circus right there, then on top of it he lives with his parents. i too live with my parents. :( i feel so lost and stressed. can anybody help? i need advice quick. can someone tell me what to do? lol i wish i was 3yrs old again. is it ok if i treat the step child as my own?
oh ya! so you can call me abbigail. im 22. i live with my parents. i dont have a job. i dont have very many friends. i have a fiancee that i love like crazy stupid.
Just slow your roll.
Concentrate on getting a job, and going to school part time.
Where you guys going to live when you get married?
Don't worry about his ex. Don't worry about his child. She/he has parents. You are to be the childs friend and nothing more.
Worry about you and you alone. :)
THIS
Quoting E_is_4_Ethan:
Just slow your roll.
Concentrate on getting a job, and going to school part time.
Where you guys going to live when you get married?
Don't worry about his ex. Don't worry about his child. She/he has parents. You are to be the childs friend and nothing more.
Worry about you and you alone. :)
AGREE
Quoting afwifeandmommy3:
Get a job and develope your own life . Step off and be a friend with this child . Don't patent and let dad parent because baby has a mom and she feels threatens
I think you should go to college, get yourself a career, enjoy your youth, and stop thinking about getting married. Just date your boyfriend. Living with your parents gives you the opportunity to finish college and build a strong foundation for yourself before you have to enter the adult world.
As for your boyfriend's ex, she was a child when she had that baby. She's still a child. Cut her a break.
Why are you afraid of bm? I had a very nice relationship with bm#1 which started with meeting her and talking. It was coffee. It was quick and in a public place. If you feel she is a danger to you or this is a set up, obviously you shouldn't go.
But overall.... What's the rush.... You may love this guy crazy stupid. Which is fun and sweet. But you will also want to have your own life and career.
Why not wait? Doesn't sound like either one of you is ready. Slow down.....you will be happier... Why not have a 3 year engagement while you set up your successful life together as the worlds most awesome power couple?
I am curious. Your profile says youre a "stepmom of 6 months." But you live with your parents and your boyfriend lives with his parents. So you don't live together, why do you call yourself a stepmom?
Jealousy, confusion, frustration- oh joy...
- abbigail958
on Jun. 3, 2012 at 12:27 AM