I am sorry __________ (babymamma) but I am sick and tired of being treated and talked to like your personal Nanny who just so happens to be married to your daughters father! I do pay for their clothes, school, activities, i cook 3 meals a day do their laundry, homework, school meetings, i take them to the doc and the dentist, i bathe and groom them, i tuck them in and love them as my own...when they are sick I take care of them isnt that what a mom does? I understand that you are their mother.... but i am too! I didnt ask to "take your place" as you see it.... im just here to make sure those girls are takin care of and istead of respect and appreciation that someone is taking good care of her children i get talked to with fake snotty kindness ( like im the nanny ...orders) ya know i am left to disciplining and assigning household chores to the kids to an outsider it might me being mean to the kids however if i were doing this o my biological child those same outsiders would be praising me for installing responsibility and manners in a child.
Being a parent is a tough but rewarding job but being a step-mom is just if not more hard with very little reward. The kids are always going to love their birth mother more