On another not I do not understand why she isn't trying to figure out what could be so wrong that out of no where sd decides she no longer loves her mom (SD's words). It is very concerning. And BM blames us saying we told her not to go. That is not the case! BM has tried begging her and promising her Disney land trips, new toys, new clothes nope..nothing works!! We've asked over and over and all SD says, "I don't wanna go" we don't know why. She was taken out of her pre-k in May (by BM) to be put in daycare cuz BM was interning for medical assistant. But now she works @ a tire shop (new to us) and the goverment will no longer pay for child care so she doesn't go.. So lots of changes from mom's side..maybe that's it? Ahh.. Sad situation.
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We finally got SD to go to BM's took candy, new toys, and a promise of a birthday party to get her to go. Phew! I needed a break! My SO took me to buy my new purse I've wanted in thanks to all the help! 3 weeks of non stop SM is hard when also dealing w/a death of an uncle and my second mom (grandma) @ the same time (uncle was gram's brother, he passed hours before my grandma) I'm beat!