Wow! what now? *warning-do not open in front of children*
So I spoke with my SD 12 again today, she likes to call almost everyday when they are with BM in the summer. SD12 has very high functioning autism. Yesterday she had told me that BM had finally explained to them that she is bipolar and that she is not feeling well right now (See my post from yesterday). SD is very straightforward and is like a tape recorder who can repeat verbatim what people say. So today she asks me "do you know what a tea bag is?", I say "yes of course, it's for making tea". She goes on to say "No, not that kind of teabag, it's different" So, I ask "what do you mean?. SD explains to me that she had seen her 17 yr old step brother putting his crotch (clothed) in her 7 yr old step brothers face and said something about a tea bag. That is all she would say so I do not know what else was said. I asked her if she had told her mom about it and she just changed the subject. So I quickly let dh know what she had told me and he takes the phone and asks SD to give the phone to BM. SD tells us that BM does not want to talk to us. DH says goodbye to SD and then tries to call BM back several times but she will not pick up. She does this when she is going through a depression, she will refuse to answer her phone. So what now? DH and I are at loss about what to do. There is no way we can just let it go. The thing I worry about most is that my 8 yr old SS sleeps in the same room with his two step brothers. God forbid anything inappropriate has happened to SS. Any suggestions on what to do next?