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when bm talks about your kids,What do you do?

Posted by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:01 PM
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Today SS8 said bm has been asking questions about my bio kids. SO emailed her and asked her to not conversate about my kids and her reply was" I will not limit the subjects I talk about". I am pissed. what do you ladies do.

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E_is_4_Ethan
by Platinum Member on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:07 PM
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If BM was asking SK's about their Step-sibling (my kids) it would just make me think that she is showing the kids that she cares and is interested about their lives beyond her world with them. 

That's a good thing.

WifeyC
by Gold Member on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:10 PM
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We do nothing. What's the point? It would only make BM do it more.

Polkadotted
by Silver Member on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:15 PM
Yep. Same

The skids talk to BM about DS non stop. I think it bothers her much more. But it's the kids' favorite topic.


Quoting E_is_4_Ethan:


If BM was asking SK's about their Step-sibling (my kids) it would just make me think that she is showing the kids that she cares and is interested about their lives beyond her world with them. 

That's a good thing.

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whatIknownow
by Ruby Member on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:21 PM
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why don't you want BM asking her kids about their step (or half?) siblings? That seems like a reasonable topic of conversation.

If I were her I would simply have ignored your boyfriend's email.

whatIknownow
by Ruby Member on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:22 PM


Quoting E_is_4_Ethan:


If BM was asking SK's about their Step-sibling (my kids) it would just make me think that she is showing the kids that she cares and is interested about their lives beyond her world with them. 

That's a good thing.

Right, that was my thought too.

afwifeandmommy3
by Bronze Member on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:22 PM
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Doesn't bother me as long as it is not negative
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sassygoddess
by New Member on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:23 PM
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 is conversate even a word?

Amazing.Love
by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:23 PM
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I agree

Quoting afwifeandmommy3:

Doesn't bother me as long as it is not negative


WifeyC
by Gold Member on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:27 PM

Who knows, but can you post A LOT?  I just want to look at your pic.  

Hey...thanks.

Quoting sassygoddess:

 is conversate even a word?


waterlily89
by on Jun. 10, 2012 at 9:28 PM
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Bm went around telling everyone that SO was with some redneck girl that has redneck babies and walks around all ghetto... Looking like white trash and my kids look like white trash... :-/ I'm Hispanic, and SO and I are OCD so having dirty kids is a bother here I can understand dirt if playing outside bit if we are inside they get washed up lol I just laughed it off cause she never met me until about October lol 6months after SO and I got together... Even to this day she doesn't know I'm pregnant, I'm always doing something like pulling weeds out the garden or sitting down with the boys so she just tell ppl I'm getting fat and txt SO sayn tht I need to quit eating all the food her son is gonna go hungry :-/ lol anyway point being is I just laugh it off, bit I can understand why you would get upset if bm had any questions about your kids then she should address them to you and your SO cause she might just be wanting to know how her child interacts with other children, maybe not meant in a negative way tho... But her response seemed a bit on the defense it could be either way... Sorry
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